Motivation Monday #3 : Forgive And Forget

Hello Sunshines ^_^

How are you?

 Today i decided to talk to you about something that i keep thinking and thinking,over and over again the last years.

There are moments that i tell to myself that i need to change my personality and the way that i treat and think about people.That i need to be tough,to stop believe that all the people have a good side,to try to remember how people treat me and what they said to me so i can act the same way back.But through the years i admit it,mostly to myself that this not gonna happen.Because i guess this is my nature,this is who i am and i think that i like it.I don't want to change it anymore.

People often tell me that i'm fool and silly that i believe in some people,that i see the good on them and that i treat them with kindness even though they seem that don't deserve it.They tell me that i should open my eyes,to see what's going on.That if i treat them good they will think that i'm silly,they will try to take advantage of me and that they will keep treat me with the same bad way.

Just don't.Don't let them to change you as a person.Try to stand up for your beliefs and for what you feel that it's right and wrong.Maybe what i do it's wrong for somebody but in the end of the day,it's just me with myself and i feel that it's right.I want to be happy with myself and with the way that i treat others.Your attitude it's yours and it's yours choice if you want to have a good one,but you can't blame anyone else for that choice.

I used to have bad feeling for people who didn't treat me right or with the way that i expect and that i though that they own me.People don't own you anything and they will not treat you always with the way that you treat them.So i just say that it's ok,i forgive them and forget about all the bad things that happen.Just let them go.I said to myself that i can't waste my time having bad feeling for them.It's better to give my time and my love to people who really deserve it.

So i guess this is what i will keep doing.I will keep seeing the good in others,their good side and i will keep giving them second chances.Because i strongly believe,no matter what,that everyone has a good side and everyone deserve a second chance.And even if they don't believe it for themselves it's good to try to make them see it,to see the light that we can see on them.People easy forget what you said or did but they will always remember how you make them feel.And i choose to make them feel happy and confindent and important,because we all deserve to feel like that in the end of the day.

Hope you like it

Keep Smile :)

xoxo

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